tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post5180553930440882025..comments2024-03-27T02:56:19.634-06:00Comments on Melissa Amateis: Ready to Throw In the Towel?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-70651466121102745352009-12-18T00:03:11.630-07:002009-12-18T00:03:11.630-07:00Oh, Melissa, I SOOOO understand. I racked up five ...Oh, Melissa, I SOOOO understand. I racked up five years worth of rejection letters for my WWII trilogy. I kept hearing the same thing - historicials weren't selling, especially historicals set in WWII. Then the market flipped - historicals are big again, and SOME of the publishers are even taking a chance on WWII - one even took a chance on me! (God bless Revell!) Keep researching the publishers and keep writing! This is obviously your passion, so don't try to chase the market. I sure hope someone takes a chance on you too someday - because I love to read this genre too :)Sarah Sundinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08205570391669770574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-78110945754452125642009-12-15T09:42:03.171-07:002009-12-15T09:42:03.171-07:00Most of the people I knew when I first started wri...Most of the people I knew when I first started writing aren't writing any more. They tried it out, but it didn't capture them enough to make the downsides bearable. <br /><br />The only reason to write is because we love writing. When bad news comes, I give myself a set period of time to be down or upset or mad. And then that's it. Back to the writing, which makes it all worthwhile.Christine Fletcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17350760019997430843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-54596268631250732302009-12-14T06:42:41.163-07:002009-12-14T06:42:41.163-07:00Pssst... you just got "tagged" on my blo...Pssst... you just got "tagged" on my blog. You are welcome to play along, or ignore it as you see fit.<br /><br />:-)CKHBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17741681893677604323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-2690428212543126112009-12-13T23:00:47.634-07:002009-12-13T23:00:47.634-07:00I think writing what you love really is key...othe...I think writing what you love really is key...otherwise, your heart just isn't in it. Like so many others, eventually you will find the right editor/agent who'll want your book because it speaks from deep inside you.Tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15636189059910920978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-34476955977787177402009-12-13T11:00:32.817-07:002009-12-13T11:00:32.817-07:00You are exactly where I am right now. Oh, sure, I ...You are exactly where I am right now. Oh, sure, I have an agent, but who's offered to publish? I feel so liberated since I recognized that it isn't the reason I write. We can only do it from love, from the sheer joy in our abilities. Screw the Fates if we don't sell our Wonders. Their loss, I say.<br /><br />Oh, and one more thing: what's hot now is NOT what will be hot in a year or more, the time needed for a book to be published and to reach book stores. These agents must be very short on vision.<br /><br />Melissa, celebrate your amazing talent. You're so much smarter and classier than the agents you're dealing with.Fran Caldwellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13545648992948168762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-3962044329992828232009-12-11T23:52:49.479-07:002009-12-11T23:52:49.479-07:00I'm glad you're sticking it through. I pre...I'm glad you're sticking it through. I prefer to think of rejections like a counter. Let's say you set yourself a goal of 100. It will take 100 rejections before you get that approval. Each one is just a checkmark. And if it happens before 100? BONUS! If not? You reevaluate your goals. You don't have to go by my numbers, I just find it helps me. <br /><br />I'm so glad you know who you are and that you're not giving up. You're a wise, wonderful person. Hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-37474582334047820582009-12-11T14:46:32.886-07:002009-12-11T14:46:32.886-07:00I hate days like that. And it always seems to come...I hate days like that. And it always seems to come in multiples for me too. It's so hard to adjust to my daily life after i open one of those emails. it casts a pall on the entire day. Yuck. Big cyber hug.Tanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10518718614911804428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-2949201819246890872009-12-11T10:41:47.018-07:002009-12-11T10:41:47.018-07:00That's right lady! When the market finally swi...That's right lady! When the market finally swings around, just think how far ahead you'll be with your finished products. :)Angie Ledbetterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16407006980893727627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-26565036226210054392009-12-11T09:42:30.106-07:002009-12-11T09:42:30.106-07:00Hugs to you for having such a frustrating time, th...Hugs to you for having such a frustrating time, though I do agree with everything you said. I keep writing because I love it too.Deborah Carr (Debs)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03223653554549707595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-16498089714037951242009-12-11T09:42:28.430-07:002009-12-11T09:42:28.430-07:00It's still only 2 rejections. When you've ...It's still only 2 rejections. When you've had hundreds and hundreds of rejections, when you've done the rounds twice over, agents AND publishers, then it might be worth thinking about doing something else. I have had so many people ask for the full of Night Crawler. So far they've all still rejected it. Maybe it's rubbish, maybe they really can't sell new stuff in the current climate. <br /><br />You keep writing what you love to write. It'll find a home eventually, and if they all do say no, if you truly believe in your work, self publishing no longer has the stigma it used to and is no longer frowned upon.Dianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06430125606844410229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-13745409264157208612009-12-11T08:59:54.534-07:002009-12-11T08:59:54.534-07:00Keep writing, Melissa. Remember too that you'...Keep writing, Melissa. Remember too that you're setting a wonderful example for your beautiful daughter, showing her how to follow a passion, to journey with it down different avenues, keeping it in your life :)Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03972054718663959694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-44876852283203080952009-12-11T08:54:48.518-07:002009-12-11T08:54:48.518-07:00A great attitude and a very wise one. I worked sev...A great attitude and a very wise one. I worked several years on getting my grandfather's memoir published and wrote the prologue and epilogue, and I eventually got it published with a university press (University of Nebraska, actually!). So don't give up, either writing or sending it out. I want to read it, for one thing! You might try to UK presses too.Laurie Powershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10429604692700662254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-34120659651473326402009-12-11T08:49:37.284-07:002009-12-11T08:49:37.284-07:00Love your attitude! I believe it will take you far...Love your attitude! I believe it will take you far in this industry. Check out Cindy Wilson's blog today- it will give you some added encouragement.Tamika:https://www.blogger.com/profile/04874834971492028558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-68568631449000073012009-12-11T08:42:08.856-07:002009-12-11T08:42:08.856-07:00HANG IN THERE!!!HANG IN THERE!!!CKHBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17741681893677604323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12150605.post-52841085793885668002009-12-11T08:41:50.861-07:002009-12-11T08:41:50.861-07:00That's such a great and important realization,...That's such a great and important realization, Melissa, and you're wise to own it. And share with the rest of us! Well done, lady.<br /><br />Have a great weekend!Janna Leadbetterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06339705935553160673noreply@blogger.com